So... when someone uses the following phrase, how do you feel/ and / what does it make you think of?
Scenario: You turn something in late. The person asks you why, then says "Well it looks to me like... and I just have to ask myself "why" did you turn it in late?"... blah blah blah.
Basically, when someone uses the phrase "I just have to ask myself why"... is it a question of your own integrity?